The "Why" Interview
3 sessions for $250
The "Why" Interview is basically my version of Enneagram coaching. It's what I call a set of three meetings in which we get to the bottom of whatever issue you want to talk about.
I used to offer one-off sessions, but they quickly proved to be useful to no one. The Enneagram is all about our unconscious motivations, which means it takes time and patience to really dig deep into what's going on.
Session 1 will go into who you are, why you're here, and what you want to get out of the process.
Session 2 will start to dig into patterns. What sorts of things show up over and over again your life? What's underneath those patterns?
Let's say you like to volunteer. Why? Because it makes you feel like you're helping? Well, what happens if you don't help? Oh, you feel guilty? Why? Because it means you're selfish? What's wrong with being selfish?
Session 3 will start to give a little shape to what we've discussed so far. What is all of this pointing towards? What does it mean?
I hear a lot of shame in what you talk about...and I hear a lot of relying on relationships to inform who you are. I also hear you talk about feeling unsure of yourself. Let's talk about what that means, and where on the Enneagram those thoughts typically live.
It's great for anyone struggling to figure out their number, but it's also a good framework to tackle basically any struggle or question you have. Relationship issues? Let's dig into it. Something keeps bothering you? Let's dig into it. The goal of all of this is to dig deep enough that we hit motivation, or the base driving force behind your decisions. It's hard work to do by yourself.
Start by booking your first session below, or send me an email at katie@9fold.life with any questions or to learn more.